"You are at a candle lit dinner with your beau or husband, deep in conversation and a beautiful girl walks in and casts a familiar glance at him with a smile as she walks past your table. He smiles right back and stays in the moment that you had to snap your fingers to bring back his attention. You ask if he knows her and he said no. You have always believed him, but you are not sure what to think at the moment. What would be your first reaction and how would you handle the situation?"
Thursday, August 6, 2009
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Forgive me if I should sound a little arrogant but fortunately for me I have never experienced that with my husband. He respects me too much. It is sad though that a man or woman would do that to their partner!!!!
Bernice Angoh
I think it all boils down to your husband look..as a man we might look at a woman with so much intensity but it doesnt imply we are interested. Men love beauty and admiring a woman without lust is not a problem.....
The woman should ask herself why she has such a problem with it. I believe that there are woman who will not even notice that the man looked at another woman or even if they notice the look, it will not mean very much to them. The bottomline is we(women) have to recognize and accept that many times our insecurities make us see things that are really not there....btw the same is true for men too....
True, men love beauty and admiring a woman without lust is not a problem but in this case it is different. I believe that is why the issue was raised. At a dinner in a conversation and she had to do something to get his attention was disrespectful.
Well,i will take his word cos being with him in the first place means i trust him.Such things happen to some women as well.Admiring a lady without lusting after her is not a crime.The eyes love beautiful things,lol!
Syl Anim
If you are a secure person inside it would not be such a big deal. I would tease my boyfriend about it and we will laught it off and continue with our dinner.
In situations where the guy has been unfaithful, it might bother you for a little bit but he was not caught in any act, so take his word for it for your own sake and have fun.
Honestly people, lets face it... In the middle of a conversation, ur man stares n smiles at another woman(1st Scenario),hmmm, thats all cool, not too bad, that can happen, just the eyes, all cool. but he doesnt end there, HE KEEPS STARING AFTER SHE WALKS PAST n u need to do something to get back his attention, n u tell me TRUST??? Hell no, Trust will come 5 seconds after, the first 4 seconds would of course be the scratched ego lol.. Lets face it ladies, we all do admire other women's beauties, but not when that beauty is coming b4 urs in ur man's eyes (n this has nothing to do with if u re sure of his love or not, it is just the law of nature.. same thing with a man, when his woman is admiring another guy's handsomeness right in his face). like anze said, a secured person inside (i will add, 5seconds later) might just tease the boyfriend n laugh over it, but... that first reaction certainly wont be a laugh (n even if it were, it would be that kind of u know, what-the-hell-do-i-do-now kind of laugh!!! lol)
lol.this is hilarious.to be realistic,there just no way u can avoid looking at a beautiful thing.most of us do it but how we do it is the question.some people cross the line for different reason,maybe to make them feel better,some to pissedoff their partners,others........for me i just admire nice sexy muscular body and that's it...lol
lol.this is hilarious.to be realistic,there just no way u can avoid looking at a beautiful thing.most of us do it but how we do it is the question.some people cross the line for different reason,maybe to make them feel better,some to pissedoff their partners,others........for me i just admire nice sexy muscular body and that's it...lol....marie
August 10, 2009 7:30 PM
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