Jealousy is relating to insecurity and fear, it is also about control. If your partner has a fit each time you want to go out with your co-workers after work or spend time with a friend then this could lead to some extremely serious problems, including spousal mistreatment and altercations between your partner and your friends. If alcohol is involved, it could be a very dangerous mixture for everyone. Insecurity is part of jealousy. If your partner is unsafe, it is because of low self esteem on their part unless it is about events on your part. If you are staying out late with a friend and do not call or engage them in any way in your friendship, you may need to create some changes in your performance. But if your partner is noisy because you have friends, you both need to agree on the boundaries of your relationship, and stick to them. Jealousy and possessiveness becomes intolerable when it gets out of hand and starts to eat the relationship. Frequently, a wife feels desired if her husband displays loving possessiveness or a boyfriend feels more loved and important if his girlfriend gets a little irritated when he checks out other women. So when does it get to be a problem? Share your thoughts and experiences.
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With real love, there is no jealousy. So in todays society, jealousy does exist as a form of low self esteem. If you want real love, there is no negativity, no fighting, no pain, no jealousy, no suffering and only the wonderful things in life. 97% of people in this world do not experience this but the remaining 3% are living in a bliss, heaven. It is your choice whether or not you have true love.
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