It's been two years since we've been together, and we were together for about 8 yrs. There hasn't been a day that's gone by that I haven't thought of him. In the morning when I wake up, and at night when I go to bed. I've moved on with my life, but am still single and find it hard to have a meaningful relationship with anyone. I think I am still in love with him, I don't think I know I am. How can I get past this love for him, and move on in my heart. I don't think he's still cares about me because I never hear from him. I miss him, his passion, his voice, his hands, his affection so much...I miss his love... The ball is in his court, and it's not moving.,, so to speak... any advice? How do I get my heart to move on?? Would love to hear from anyone who's been thru the same thing. Thanks for ur comments
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I have almost very similar situation. Have been holding a crush on a guy for almost 7 years. But now, I moved on. I try to have a wonderful life and enjoy things am doing so much. I expand my social life and really enjoy
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Get out there and meet new guys, date a little. Keep yourself busy with girlfriends and fun classes and shopping and work! Do things that you think you might not like, because I guarantee you'll probably end up liking it! Get out there and do things you would normally say no to. Your heart will heal.
I was in the same boat, it was a really tough situation and waking up every morning for me was like tearing my heart into pieces cause the thought of him was the first thing that enters my mind. It took me two years before I told myself that at last I'm really over him. Well, it's all in the mind. I just kept myself really busy and tried to sought for a friends' advice. I also read self-help books that all taught me how to love myself. And you know what's the best pill for that? GOD. He made me realize how special I am and that I should never feel that way. Everything happens for a reason and sooner or later, He will give you the person you truly deserve, just wait patiently for that time to arrive. Just teach yourself how to get rid of his memories. Stop thinking of him and let go of the past. Find happiness in the things surrounding you. It's all up to you girl, don't punish yourself with things that aren't meant for you. God Bless!
I am in the same exact situation as you. I was married for eight years, we seperated two years ago, and finally our divorce was final in April.. Now, I cannot stop thinking about him, he is in my mind all the time. I keep asking myself if I made a mistake on leaving.! I have been on dates but nothing is the same! So I just want you to know, I know exactly how you feel.. I think the way to get over it is to love yourself. Workout, find hobbies you enjoy, activities to make yourself feel better!! Sounds crazy, but it works!!! Hope I could help =)
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when you wake in the morning you got two choices to be happy or unhappy.It's important that you read the bible with all your heart and feel the presence of our Lord everyday, because no one can heal our pain but only HIM.Try to ask this question."who & why allowed us suffering?"Once you know the answer, the sooner or later all your burden feelings will dissapear that you do not know
It's been almost six years since I parted from my boyfriend of two years. We lived together, and I thought we were soulmate. The breakup was devastating; he cheated, lied and turned into someone I didn't know at all. I think I held him in such high regards, so his fall from grace was hard to accept. The way he left was disgraceful! I've dated many wonderful guys after and now happily married to a super loving husband; I'm very happy with my husband, but I still find myself at times still think of my ex. I think it's very natural to think/remember the one that hurt you! With me, time did heal all wounds...but you would never forget. Accept that it is the past, treasure it and look forward. Open your heart to all possibilities and love might surprise you. I took time to get reacquainted with myself and got out with friends; learned to be more independent, less co-dependent...and all of sudden, being alone wasn't all that bad! And if the right person comes along, as in my case, life will blossom again. Don't beat yourself too much!!!
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Well the easiest thing in life is too hold on to things but the hardest thing is to let go. But trust me you will only get stronger. Your love for him should grow to just caring. Do not bother whether he cares about you or not. Your love does not depend on him. Grow in love for him by just caring for him and yourself. Take this time out to know more about yourself. Learn, experience and add more to the way you live life. Soon you will heal and become stronger.
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