My boyfriend and I are both virgins and are saving ourselves for marriage. Recently I found out he had already had relations with three different woman that I know of. I'm completely devastated and don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. Should i forgive him or end it?
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it would be best to talk about it with him and then search your own heart for the answer on this one. It is not uncommon for men to have had an experience of this type. It is unfortunate that you will not both be virgins on that special night. In his heart he may well feel like a virgin if the other women were not the love of his life. Do you feel he is committed to you and will not be someone that is likely to stray? It is good though that he trusted you enough to share this with you in the first place as he could have just kept quiet about it. Eight years is also a long time to be going out with one another. Is this because you have been unsure all of this time about making this commitment
Developing an openness to the belief that people can change is a step forward
Forgiving is the God-like gift of spiritually connecting with others, touching their hearts to calm the fear of rejection, quiet the sense of failure and lighten the burden of guilt. Forgetting is the God-like gift of spiritually touching others' hearts with the reassurance of a happy and full life with no fear of recrimination
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