Sharing your most intimate desires with the one you love.

Most people are afraid to speak their minds to their partners about what they want, mostly for fear of looking like a pervert, for fear of being demanding or for fear of what ever the reason may be.
I have seen many relationships thrive because the woman tells the man what she wants, how she wants it and vice versa with affection of course. In most cases both partners love to feel like they can give something and it counts for much when you ask during intimacy and recieve.
"Honey I like it when you touch me here, or kiss me there or hold me like this or like that..." what ever term you like to use or what ever love language you like to speak.

Some people like kinky love. I think it is ok as long as it is not predominant. It is one of those things that gets tacky after so many times and can create a negative space. It is good to be open but rational.
Trying new things is fun and opens the mind not just to relationship building but also in other areas of your life.
Give it a shot and tell us at TLL what you think or if you have been doing so, kindly share some ideas. It is a great way to share intimacy with your spouse. I do not mean only sexually, even though that will be a great tool to rekindle the fire in a dying relationship.

My disclaimer will be that God is the ultimate relationship builder. He created all things even the love we so want but want to keep Him out of it. God is Love. Without Him, your relationship is like a paper in the wind wishing for good winds to toss you to the right direction.