Why do women say one thing and mean another? Women are strange sometimes. Half of what they say has exactly the opposite meaning. This is where a communication problem comes in and getting the man they really want.Attraction is a confusing subject. Men and women often cannot explain why they are attracted to someone. Attraction isn’t a logical decision. A woman does not make the logical decision to be with a man because he is nice to her with his compliments and gifts. Women and men make emotional decisions on who they want to have relationships with. For women, they often say they like men with humor, which I believe is true, but it isn’t the whole story. A woman can say she likes a guy with a sense of humor but a good sense of humor alone isn’t enough. Ladies aren’t crawling all over comedians. What they often find attractive is a guy who is cocky and has a sense of humor. Being cocky and funny when combined with unstoppable confidence is usually enough to get a woman because this pushes all her right buttons. There really isn’t anything that can get a woman turned on faster than a cocky and funny guy.
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There are many reasons why women appear “flip-floppish”. These reasons could be that:
1. She has been hurt and scared to put her heart back on the table to be crushed again.
2. She may be shy and, honestly, don’t know how to express herself-so she back out of before moving forward.
3. Or maybe she had a change of heart and just don’t like “dude” as much as she used to.
Whatever the reason is she has a right to back off without being the world’s worse person. If you take a vote I bet most men would prefer her backing off sooner than to be in a relationship for some time to learn later that she has some serious issues that he wished he had known about way before now!
But a seasoned woman who has been around the block a time or two knows what she wants. She just has to come across the right guy who can satisfy her wants as she’s willing to do the same for him. At the end of the day, it goes back to what Ludwig said in another post-some people enter our lives only for a season; it’s not meant for them to stick around, but the experience that they dropped off before their departure is what was meant to remain with us. It’s most valuable-not the physical being.
If you truly believe in a “soul mate” then you know this CAN ONLY BE “one person”- so you do the math. You can meet 1000 potential mates. Of course, 999 Will fall by the way side, but only “the one” will remain. Nobody said the love game was fair or would be played with rules. That’s not the logical of emotions-the game wasn’t meant to be played that way.
Staying committed to who you are and what you want is the key. He/she will appear when you least expect it. It’s called “fate”.
Temeka
I am not so sure about the "cocky" part, at least not for us "older women", when I was younger, you bet, but I have outgrown that attraction. Funny and confident....yes.
Women more emotional intouch but are no different from men. Life gives you what you need, you choose who you want to share you moments with. Love is not a game. It is a feeling. It is the ulmate reason why we live. We live to love. If you call it a game, then you must understand that it must end as all games do. Hence only a very few in this world love.
Hear...hear...Olayalls. I agree with you 100%. I couldn't have said it any better.....
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