Why is it necessary to play hard to get and what are some of the advantages and disadvantages? share your thoughts and comments and please follow the blog.
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Saturday, August 8, 2009
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I am a huge fan of mutual attraction. If I would play hard to get, it would be in a case where I would want to make sure he is not just fooling around.
Too much hard to get is not necessary.
Interesting....how do you know if he is not fooling around. Is there any set of rules or parameter to know..
A lil' bit of "shakara" is always necessary.lol!
That is the key word, PLAY!!! I play hard to get only if i know the attraction is mutual and of course giving the dude some signals i am just playing him along (otherwise he might disappear, n i cld pluck my eyes out afterwards...lol).. this way, it makes the chase more romantic n worth that first kiss.. If i dont want the dude, i dont play, then i am not only hard to get but not to be gotten at all!! n he better gets that FAST!!! :-)
ohhhh, n there is that other game, where u just flirt with the guy, u know just for the fun of it although u know it is going nowhere.. i know, that is mean, but hey, sometimes gurls just wanna have fun...;)
Most women have lost a golden opportunity from a guy when they play hard to get. Men by nature are very impatient and can walk away thinking she is not interested in him. I strongly feel if there is chemistry in everything playing hard to get is not an option
Ludwig
Nööööö my dear Kao i strongly disagree with u.. if u walk away bc a woman is playing hard to get, then for real u will fall on the category anze said earlier.. "just fooling around.." The truth is, a man most often knows when a woman is attracted to him.. now a man who is not patient enough n let this chick play her game of hard to get, is a clear case of a guy who just wanted a quick one.. if u really want something, then exercising some patience is worth every second/day/hour/year of the waiting.. why re men very patient when it comes to pursuing money, but not very patient with women?? is it that men cherish money more than women?? tell me what gives a man more happiness, love or money??? the one mistake men make is, they always fool themselves there re more than enough women out there, why waste time on this particular one?? but believe me, u cant feel the same for every woman; n usually, there is only just that one particular woman. n believe me, when u meet her, u will feel it in ur bones... n u wont mind waiting for her for even up to a year!!!!! lol...
Playing hard to get or not depends on the individual. I personally make it hard for someone im talking to so they can open up and because once i give in, it is a 100% happiness, support, love etc. Love is the greatest gift of all. I want to make sure she appreciates it now.
I think most women play hard to get because most men seem to like the chase. They get bored and uninterested if we make it easy for them and we ladies...since we AIM TO PLEASE, are very willing to oblige.....
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