Cougars don't tend to take advantage of younger men (at least not this one). If anything, they have a touch of innocence mixed with experience that can encourage a man to not only increase his libido but also change his perspective on life as a whole.My definition of a cougar is seen as a confident woman over 40 who looks like she's in her late twenties or early thirties and handles her business Although it may seem a bit odd for a single man (with no kids) to be so passionate about women 20 years his senior, the fact of the matter is I don't go out searching for older women. It just so happens that I meet women who are older than me that have it all together and look my age. To be honest, I don't have any regrets about not dating woman in their twenties. I feel every man should experience an older woman at least once in his lifetime. The benefits are priceless! They'll let a man be a man as oppose to criticizing him for talking to his platonic friend in a social setting, which is absurd
Don't get me wrong. All women are beautiful, unique and creative in their own special way. But as a young ambitious gentleman on the come up, who the hell needs a nagging "girl" who is insecure from dating men? I much rather deal with a full-fledged woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it by any means necessary. Which in itself is sexy!Whether it's in the bedroom, boardroom or relationships, cougars cut straight to the point, leaving no time to waste. After all, can you blame them? What 47-year-old woman has the time to "play" mind games with her man just to intentionally stir up drama? Or Tweet about the pettiest things that's not cutting her any checks? Instead of "acting" like a mature career-driven woman, how about "becoming" a mature career-driven woman who "knows" what she wants out of life?
And let's not forget about the sex. We want our lady to let loose in the bedroom after a long oppressive day at work. There's nothing like a cougar enticing her man by wearing something extra sexy while spritzing the sheets with her fragrance of choice. You can't beat that. Sometimes a man just needs love and affection.It makes more sense for a brother to have a co-star instead of a supporting cast member in the bed. We, as men, want to experience the ultimate high when it comes to intimacy with a woman. There's absolutely no reason why we should settle for a young amateur. Why have amateur night at the Apollo when we can have the Grammys every night?
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Seriously, as a cougar, younger men appear to be the only real decent options. The era of the wounded 40 year old man that's been divorced and hurt keeps me far, far away from them. They have too much baggage. Until they get over it, The younger the cub, the happier the cougar
Reuters had an article the other day on the trend of older white English women going on vacation in Kenya, and while there, taking out hot young men, buying them clothes and expensive dinners, and having sex with them.
The movie Heading South came out in 2006 and featured Charlotte Rampling traveling to Haiti to have sex with young men in the 1970's. A long article about the movie goes into all these complicated arguments about sex, economics, political power, gender roles, exploitation, and on and on
Brooklynchic you sound like a wounded, baggage-laden 40+ woman yourself. Here is the thing. These young boys know they can get 3 things out of an older women sex, money and "lack of pressure" to get hitched. If that works for you fine but don't fool yourself, these young boys are preying on you too old woman
I DON'T KNOW IF I WOULD BE CONSIDERED A COUGAR OR PUMA BUT, MOST RELATIONSHIPS I'VE BEEN IN, HAVE BEEN WITH MEN THAT HAVE BEEN YOUNGER THAN ME. NOT THAT I'VE BEEN ON THE HUNT FOR THEM, THEY'VE ALWAYS PURSUED ME. EVEN NOW, I'M 42 AND THERE'S A 28 YEAR OLD AFTER ME. ALTHOUGH, I FEEL HE'S A LITTLE TOO YOUNG. I ASKED HIM WHY HE PURSUED ME AND HE STATED THE MOST COMMON ANSWER....MATURITY. NOT SECURITY, WHICH MOST PEOPLE WOULD THINK IS THE MORE COMMON ANSWER. A YOUNGUN TRYING TO FIND HIS "MAMA", IN A DIFFERENT WAY
BROOKLYNCHIC...I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU! AGAIN, THE YOUNGER THE CUB, THE HAPPIER THE COUGAR!
I think it's awesome that younger men want older women -- men have been doing it for millenia. And if I wasn't married -- that young rapper Drake -- he could get it. He's even stated that he loves the older ladies too! This is a great read. Excellent piece, young cub!
Older women for younger guys is the way to go. In fact I am hooking up sugar mummies with toy boys
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