I have a boyfriend,and we've been going out for 5 months,and we have already done sex in our relationship for a couple of times,he introduced me to his parents,and his parents are really nice and the good thing about it is that i'm the first girl he introduced to his parents,because before when he had girls over at their house,they would just hang outside of their house and when his parents would ask him who that was,he would just say nobody,just a friend.I'm happy because of that,he's not the first guy i've had sex with,same with him but we both admitted it.he can really be sweet sometimes when we're alone together. when we're alone together,he's a different person in a good way. but when we're with other people,he acts different,he sometimes acts like a jerk. He doesnt like holding hands, hugging me or kissing, but i love him,and i know that somehow,he loves me too.I don't know if he really loves me for who i am or is he just using me for pleasure.
i need help!
5 comments:
I think you rushed to have sex and he is not that attracted to you anymore. My advice is to put him down for a serious conversation and find out why he is acting up. Maybe he is not an open affectionate person
From my point of view it sounds like he is using you by him showing you to his parents is him showing you off letting them know that he can do good but your just to good for him. If i were you i would ask him if he would wait for sex just stop for a while that way you will see weather he is using you or not.
Well love is kind of big to use now. Some people need time to open up. Try sharing things that mean a lot to you with him. If he is still the same, i guess you will know the answer to your question.
Its to early to comment if he is using you. With regards to the sex part Gladys you are right....I think this dude is not a an open person
Public Displays of Affection a.k.a PDA is not something all people are comfortable with specially infront the parentage. Cut him some slack. He hasn't shown signs of desertation yet even after the sex. He cares, though that is shown in a more private setting. Introducing you to his folks shows he respects you. Maybe he just did not grow up in an environment where affection towards a loved one was shown.
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