I have been married for three and the half years now and had orgasm only two times in all our sexual encounters. Please help me on what to do.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Orgasms
I have been married for three and the half years now and had orgasm only two times in all our sexual encounters. Please help me on what to do.
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Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax easily:
* a romantic atmosphere
* pleasant, comfortable surroundings
* a partner who they really like
* a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
* a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
* a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.
@Ludwig skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris...how do you get the skills if you didnt mess up other women..lol
Many women like much more foreplay or love play than men imagine. They want to feel that the man is keen on giving pleasure and not just in a hurry to have his own climax. In fact, the worst thing a man can say to a woman is: ‘Haven’t you come yet ...hahahahaha I use to say that...lol but now no more... This is likely to make her feel extremely inadequate and will ruin any build up of sexual pleasure and tension that might have been taking place.
I am always amused when i see this topic brought up amongs African. And by my guess this is a topic no one wants to venture into. As long as pleasure zones, sexuality, and sensuality remain an unspoken topic amongs African couples, you might as well close this topic right now. Good news, you know what an orgasm feels like. Bad news, how do you get him to constantly get you to that high each time you have sex? Dilema.
Ladies this part is for you. Know your body. Very important. If you have never masturbated before i'd suggest you try it. Stand infront of a mirror naked and explore your body and gain confidence about it. Read, read, read. Yes read about sex. Just like you study for school, study sex and pleasuring. A vivid, creative, and seductive imagination is a good asset. Know your desires and Be willing to talk frankly about them with your partner. Make sex fun, spontaneaus, engaging, yet relaxing. Give your man some
encouraging sounds and even a cheer.
Gentlemen you are always to blame for the shortcomings in the orgasm department. First it was the one -minute man complain, now it's no orgasms. Ladies are hard to please. But on the real one thing you should learn is patience when it comes to the female body. Decide which will make youe woman happy: intense foreplay leading to orgasm, or intercourse leading to intercourse. Both can be accomplished but if you don't enjoy performming oral sex on your woman, or if you orgasm during intercourse before she does, then brotha you make your woman very unsatisfied sexualy. Find a strenght and develope on it. As to some of the advices giving to da ladies, you also have some exploring to do. Masturbation is a great practicing tool. Masturbate but hold off on the orgasm for as long as you can. Know what turns you on in your woman and positively highlight those features or aspects. Open dialoge is a must. Ask her how sex could be better if you sense she is not satisfied. Watch porn. Hahaha yes but not for the purpose of jacking off but to learn. I'd tell you to read but it's not as exciting. When deciding to perform felatio on a woman make sure you will take your time, indulge, and enjoy doing it. Put some romance, laughter, and imagination to it. If your woman is relaxed, is sexually comfortable, and knows you are doing this out of the love and pleasure you have for her and her body, then you both can make magic in the bedroom, or couch, shower, or even the kitchen.
Orgasms are very important in sex.
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